Having an idea to be a Boss

Hi guys, here I am with another post. A longer post.

So I have posted a poll on my instagram story which goes 'To Stay or Change Job' and most of my friends who are also my followers voted to 'Change' job. So I continued with 'Be a Boss or continue working as an employee' and obviously 'Be a Boss' has got more votes than 'Continue working as an employee'.

So as I've posted the percentage of the vote that I've gotten in that particular story of either 'Being a Boss' or 'Continue Working as an Employee', there are like few people who come questioning me about 'Being a Boss' but 1 of them manage to stop questioning as I've ranted on my Instagram story for once. But I get it that they care, that's why they come and asked me questions but there is this particular friend of mine who is also following me on Instagram, obviously did not read my rant on my story, continued to question me yesterday on Instagram message.

She questioned me the first time and I was already turned off by it but still I replied her politely as I respect her as my friend. But she continued bombarding me with questions yesterday as I was out shopping. The moment I saw her message on Instagram, I am seriously pissed off and turned off by her questions.

So she first asked 'What do you want to sell if you be your own boss?' and my reply to her was 'HAHAHAHAHAHA, Idk eh, maybe clothes?' and then she continue with 'how are you going to go about it?' and my reply again was 'Hahahaha, haven't really plan yet' which I think is quite obvious that I DO NOT HAVE A CONCRETE PLAN.

Then she suddenly reply again yesterday with 'How much are you going to invest in a clothing business? Are you going to open a shop or just online basis? What style of clothing are you going to go about, have you thought about it?'

SERIOUSLY, GIVEN YOUR BOMBARDING QUESTIONS, DID YOU REALLY THINK THAT I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT IT?! IT WAS JUST AN IDEA. It's not like I don't know BEING A BOSS ON MY OWN IT'S NOT EASY. There are a lot to think and consider if I really were to become a boss. I also know that to really start a business, you need to have the money and if you're doing clothing business, you will need to have a supplier and you will need to target a range of customers and you will need to have a lot of sizes for clothing.

All in all, I know it's not that easy but can't I just have the idea of being a boss? Did you really have to come & stress me when it was my idea? If I didn't thought about it carefully, I would've started my own business like last year when I had the thought of being my own boss.

Because of all your bombarding questions, it reminds me of the reason why I hardly keep in contact with you. To be honest, when you're selling stuffs, I supported you and you are pushy when it comes to you selling stuffs which turn off a lot of people. But still, I supported you. You need to learn to respect people. You need to learn that when I posted that on my Instagram story, it's not for you to come and bombard me with questions which makes me even more stress. It was mainly a POST, an IDEA.

I'm done replying you politely. That's why I stop replying you. I wanted to reply you rudely the 1st time when you come questioning me but I did not do that because I don't want things to turn ugly but seriously, you're pissing me off VERY MUCH and truth to be told, I hate it when people come & stress me. You're not even close to me. You're just a FRIEND. Not even CLOSE FRIEND or BEST FRIEND. But I understand that you care enough, therefore the questioning but you need to learn to CHILL. After all, it was my idea.

So what if I start the business without a concrete plan? So what if I didn't give it a much thought about the business? Does it hurt you? Does it concern you? Are you gonna support me by purchasing the things that I'm selling? To be honest, it has got nothing to do with you, it is none of your business. If you support, then good for me. If you don't support, then don't support la. But if you don't support me, then you shouldn't come questioning me like that. Because I feel like you don't even respect me.

That's all for my rant today. Will update again soon.

Thank you guys for reading til the end.

Hope you guys like reading the post though I know it's nothing nice but yeah, it's my view and how I feel about it. ^_^